C H O O S E Y O U R S E L F.

There will be days when you would feel like escaping from everything around you, you would wish to run away from everything that affects your mental health. You might even ignore phone calls or text messages just because you dont feel like talking, maybe, you’ll prefer your own company over someone else’s. People will call you rude because you will be busy, choosing you. You will play your favourite song, you will read your favourite book, pour yourself a cup of coffee just the way you like it, you’ll indulge yourself in all that keens your interest, you’ll talk to yourself, remind yourself wherever you are, but, just remember, its okay to be just be like this. BEING YOU..!

And, trust me, that’ll never be selfish. Because choosing yourself is not selfish, choosing your happiness over someone else’s is not selfish. It is not at all selfish. Just ask yourself, putting myself before anyone else, does that cost too much of inner peace? Or, is that..that difficult? I’m sure it’s not. Why do we always tend to choose others over and over ourselves everytime when we know we are worthy of it. This may help you in a short run, but, on a long run it may end up devastating you, destroying you completely; and thereby ending you up in a state of mess which you may have never thought of. Though, taking that leverage to hurt someone is definitely is.

So, choose yourself if that what it takes to make you feel proud of what you are, choose yourself a thousand times if that what it takes to make you love you for whatever you are today.
Know your worth, and all that you are worthy for. Dont keep things to you about someone, open up, when someone is wrong, say them, no matter how much courage that takes, or how the other perosn will feel. Silence is not the key to your happiness.

I dont think anyone of us present here would ever like to remain silent, only because what the other person will feel like, and not just caring about how we ourselves, the inner us, will feel like.


Published by akshita bansal

doing a thing of what I want🌸🌸

70 thoughts on “C H O O S E Y O U R S E L F.

    1. Yes, and more importantly believe in yourself..!
      The day you start choosing yourself, is the day you will be so proud of you..! πŸ™‚

      Thank you so much for dropping these soo lovely words..!😊
      Have a great day aheadπŸ€—πŸ’•πŸ’•

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    1. Yes, you should be your priority always…!
      Sometimes, what is important is just to remember us what our priorities actually are..!
      Well said πŸ™‚
      Thank you so much for these lovely words of yours. 😊🌻

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    1. Yesss, it is very important to be ‘us’, and hell whenever we forget that, we should have the power of reminding ourselves our priorities…!

      Glad you liked πŸ™‚
      Thank you so much for your lovely words😊🌸

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  1. It took me a long time to realize this. I always put others before myself. Since I realized this was doing harm to me mentally and holding me back, I have changed. Now I’m a better person and I do more for others than I ever have. Thank you for your excellent post. Take care.

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    1. I’m so glad and happy for you that you got to realize this in time. People dont even realise this very thing, and keep hurting themselves, only for the cause of someone else.
      We tend to put ourselves before people, and rarely do we realise, that, by doing this, we are putting ourselves back.
      I do appreciate this change in you so much…! πŸ™‚
      Thank you so much for sharing your feelings out here..!

      Have a great day. Stay safe and sound.

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      1. You are kind, but so is yours πŸ™‚
        I am always looking forward to read from others and learn how they view their world and place, just so very interesting.
        Take care!

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      2. You equally have beautiful blog, and I am always looking forward to read from others and learn how they view their world and place, just so very interesting.
        Take care!

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    1. Yeasss, this is the least we can do for us..isnt it?😊

      When we are adjusting for the world for I don’t know how long, nowww, the world can adjust I guess:)

      Thank you so much for sharing these inspiring words ☺
      Glad to read:)🌻

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  2. Great message! It’s important to pay attention to our mental health. I try to limit the amount of life drama I experience each day. I make sure I spend time alone at least for an hour or two each day – to enjoy my life– alone. It’s part of being myself.

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    1. Yeasss, that’s a very good step towards yourself…!
      Very few people can actually do that, actually figure out that they need themselves and they have to fetch time for that πŸ™‚

      I’m so happy to hear that you take out time for you, amidst all the busy schedules. This is very important, yes, to figure out what are your priorities basically..!

      Thank you so much for sharing such lovely and inspiring words..! πŸ™‚
      All strength your way to remain the way you are and to inspire others toooo…!😊❀❀

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      1. Thanks for your reply – grease to my elbow. 😊 As you said, a lot of people are yet to realize the importance of alone time – a time to discover or rediscover oneself. With this post, at least a handful who are unconsciously being unkind to themselves have an opportunity to turn a new leaf.
        There are people I know who can’t just spend 15 minutes alone. They get bored to death. They need help to learn how to love their own company. People will not always be there like in 24/7.

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      2. Yess, exactly, people can never be like in 24/7, and I guess if we can afford even just an hour or so for ourselves, that’ll be enough..right?😊

        But, most importantly people have to realize this, you are doing quite a great thing florence, I must say, you really deserve a great appreciation for this..!😊❀❀

        And, that’s so kind of you to think that this post can do some better to anyone reading this πŸ™‚ . If my words can have a little change in anyones life, I’ll be the most happy person here..!πŸ™‚
        Your lovely words mean so much to me. This is what keeps me inspiring every day..!
        Thank you so much for thisπŸ˜ŠπŸ’™πŸ’™
        Have a great day ahead. Hugs❀❀


    1. Your most welcome 😊

      I guess everyone of us needs to remind us this..! And this is the least we can do for ourselves..!πŸ˜ŠπŸ™ŒπŸ»πŸ™ŒπŸ»
      Keep going. Keep reminding.
      You are strong and always will be..!πŸ‘Š
      Sending all strength your way..!

      Good day..!β€πŸ’žπŸ’ž

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