ASK FOR MORE.

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It was autumn,
standing amidst a crowd
i saw someone
one among them
or maybe not,
silently listening their conversations
nodding his head
left or right and side by side,
maybe, understanding things
or maybe not..!

To break this diliemma,
I went upto him

‘ Hey champ,
what are you doing here?’
And, an answer came,
” listening..!”
~Are you a part of this group?..
No, just listening.. ~
~Why?…
I am a fan of this guy..~
( to be precise, that guy was a famous speaker)
~ So why dont you tell him?…
I’m afraid if he’ll even listen..~
~ You can try…
But, I’m afraid..~
~ Until you ask, the answer is going to be a big ‘NO’ always..
Okay, I’ll try..~
~ Go for it…! And, I left..!

Few months later,
I found that same person
right where I saw him before…!
curious me, again went to him,

~ Did you try?..
…yes, I told him I was his big fan ( the light in his eyes was incomparable)~
~ Did he listen?..
….he was a kind soul, even took a picture with me..! ~
~ Wow, isnt that incredible?…
…but, I thought this could be more, sooo~
~ Sooooo…?
…sooo, I followed him to the VIP area,
again went to him,
just wanted to see the words win.
He offered me a drink,
but, what if someone doesn’t drink?
I said him, rather,
i would like to stand next to him..!
Having stood for an hour or so,
being so resolute..
he invited me for lunch.
Asking my plans,
analysing, rethinking,
asked me to start a podcast..! ~
~ Okey, then?….
….I asked him to be my first guest..!😅
He said, what about 15th?
Having recorded 14,
i’m standing here
waiting for him, to record 15th..!~
And, there he went,
recording 15, 16 and so many more….!

Honestly, I was numb.
There I realised one thing, unless we make an effort to actually ASK.. how can we decide ourselves, the answer is going to be a NO. Who knows what happens next?
You see, it all starts with an urge to ask..! You have to ask, if you want to do something. No one is here to read your mind, you have to get up yourself..!
Ask for more, more and more..until, you feel enough for you…! Telling him he was a big fan, asking for a picture, following him to the VIP area, asking to stand next to him, being invited for lunch, given an idea to start a podcast, inviting him as a guest, and finally recording him as his 15th podcast..!🙌🏻
EVERYONE CAN MAKE THIS HAPPEN.

WORK ON YOU FOR YOU..!

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141 thoughts on “ASK FOR MORE.”

  5. Absolutely true, Akshita…
    Every little thing start with that little asking question…

    Ask more, know more, that should be tagline of life, the silent one often went unnoticed and curious one always edged past competitors in some or other manner, right?😅

    Beautiful post, 😁😁

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    1. Yeass, unless we urge to ask, how can we make up a mind of what the other person’s answer would be.
      Yes, exactly, if you want to be different from the crowd, learn to speak..!🙌🏻
      Otherwise, everyone is a part of crowd..!😁

      Thank you so much divyang for your inspiring words. Appreciate them to the core😁😁💙

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      1. We all had done a PhD in over thinking in that, don’t u think??😂😂

        Just assume what other’s would answered and we prefer to be silent from that moment!!

        I remember something from the word crowd too,

        “I don’t want to be part of crowd,
        But would be glad if that crowd gather for me!!”😁😁

        Your welcome Akshita, keep up the good work…😀🙌

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      2. Hahahahah, I guess soo 😂😂😂, exactly, might have, obviously without a degree..!🤪🤪

        Yeahh, right..! This is what actually thousands of them are actually doing. Can you believe a small child, not even feeling worth it to just ask a small question in the classroom to his teacher, where we barely have not more than 40 students..! ? That’s so much lack of self confidence or even feeling ashamed of what his or her question would be like to the people around or to the teacher?….!
        This is bad..!

        Well yeaasss..! Crowd, gather crowd for you, not be a part of crowd gathered for someone else..!😁🙌🏻
        The only motto I’m living on..!🤪

        Have a great day ahead divyang…!!😁🌻

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      3. We are master in that, and facing the issues too, for not having a degree!!😛😛😂😂

        Yeah absolutely, because he/she has some kind of fear, he assume already, I guess which leads to them to be stay silent!! 😅😅

        Crowd is crazy, don’t be part of them, take benefits from them, right??…😂😁

        Good morning Akshita!!
        Good day ahead,😁😁

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      4. Yeahhh, exactly 😂😂😂

        Ikr, and that is so bad. I feel pity here.

        And, coming to the crowds, yaa, ofcourse, how can you be wrong 😂😂 , do take benefits from them, but, I guess never at the cost of hurting someone..!😅🙂

        A very good morninggg to you too..divyang!
        Wishing you a good day ahead too..!😁

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      5. Can’t argue in that!!😅😅

        Self confidence is necessity now a day, but we all are lack it somewhere, 😅😅not only the kids right??

        Crowd, absolutely as far as we do good from them, it’s good to take benefits but creating some propaganda out of them will be ridiculous!!

        How’s the day though?

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      6. Yeassss, well..we do lack at some point of the other though…! It is a great necessity, no matter …!🙌🏻
        But the point is, how can we overcome that?🤔

        Yess exactly, creating a propaganda will be really ridiculous..!

        Btw, yes, the day was kinda unexpecting lol. Working on a national holiday, you can imagine that now😑😑
        And how about yours?

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      7. Absolutely, we all lack it…😁😁

        There’s so many points to overcome it but only n only if the person want by themselves,
        If he/she isn’t ready to step up it’s hard!! I guess!!😅😅

        We are working even on routine holidays too (though half day), to ab to Holiday ka meaning hi gayab ho gya h life ko dictionary se, 😂😂

        Nirmala didi ki krupa se night shift bhi ho jati h kbhi kbhi to, if deadline extend nai hoti h!!
        😂😂
        Have a great day ahead Akshita!!🙌🙌😁

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      8. Yepp..! So true, after all, it matters whether we wanna overcome that or not..right? Making up a mind is so very important. 🙌🏻

        Omg..feeling pity for you and happy too…! Akele hum kyun jhelein, an thoda acha LG rha h koi aur bhi jinhe holidays kya hain, ab to pta hi nhi😂😂🤭. Ye ek baat achi batai aapne, hmein sunke acha lga🤣🤣🤭🤭🤭

        Aree aree, thanks to nirmala didi..!😌🙏

        Have an occupied one..!😂🙌🏻

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      9. Yes, that’s matter in the end!!😅😅
        If you weak by mind, then there’s no way out, you’ll always stuck somewhere, right?

        Ab Delhi wala Mogambo happy ho gya, dekho!!😔😔
        yuup, and if holiday comes, then when it comes and when it goes, not find a single clue then!!😅😅

        You too have a working day on Sunday?
        Nirmala didi ka to naam hi mat lo, vo na heart attack deti h, ekdum last date par extension deti h, high BP vala patient to sochkar hi nipat jaye!!😂😂

        Have a great sunday ahead!!😊😊

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      10. Yeasss…!😊🙌🏻
        Surely will be stuck..! All the game of how strong one is mentally 🙌🏻

        Dekho dekho kitni udaasiii😏🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭
        Ikr, holidays toh rehne hi do😂😂

        Yep yep…working lol..! Especially, emerging wards and the general wards these days.
        Hahahaha, I feel pity now😑😪. That’s kinda savage lol😂😂😂…anyways, bacha lenge use bhi😂🤭🤭

        Have a great sunday ahead too divyang..!🤗💐

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      11. Yuup,that’s true!!😅😅
        People believe in to letting go things and they aren’t as much as optimist when they very first start to do something, gently they lose the grip and there starts the real struggle, right?😅

        Udaas nai h, khush h, koi h jo humare jitna hi dedicated h 😅😅
        Maybe more than us!!

        You are from pharmacy, dep right?
        I still not get how many field are there in Medicals, seriously!!🧐🧐

        Yeah, as far as you are there, Nirmala didi heart attack deti rahegi hume🤣🤣

        How’s the sunday gone though?😅😅

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      12. Yeasss, so truee..! That’s where the real struggle starts..!🙌🏻 And, actually that’s the point where we have to be so mentally sting enough not to fall in the pit that curve is showing us..!😅

        Hahaha, well, chlo khush rehna hi chhaiye..|🤭🤭
        You gotta search that then😅, pharmacy is not actually a dept, those are actually the people who instruct over the medicines, a little superior to chemists..! And me, I’m a surgical resident plus an intern lmao..!😅😅🤭

        Hahahah I hope she doenst gives a shoot off straight away..!😅🤭🤭

        Well, sunday was…I actually dont know damn..!😅😅😂, I think it was good, not that good enough.. lol..i barely can come to one point. But I guess yes, it was good( sounds nice even🙄😂😂)

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      13. Struggle isn’t real though, the outcome of it recognised whether it’s a struggle or lesson, right??😅😅 Strong mentally as well as physically is indeed a useful to tackling the situation!!😁😁

        Hope you’re too happy!!😁🙌
        Ohh okay, literally I had no idea about medical field, but now due to WordPress I get to know something, who meet me friends like you!!😁😁🙌🙌
        So u r the upgraded version of Chemist, right, in short??

        Well I also get to know your surgical strikes, 😛😛😂😂 Na na vo to Dhire dhire hi maregi, at last Sources Jo thehre hum…😂😂

        Oh shit!!😛😛
        Sounds like a you had a great funday!!!😂😂 No no share na, kya kiya pure din?

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      14. Yess, XD people really do see that shit, nothing else..!🙌🏻 The outcome is what matters to them not the real struggle.
        Yes, and this tackling thing, is hard, not all can come up to it.🙌🏻

        Ya ya, I’m happy, I’m so happy, attending the emergency calls.😑
        Haha, thanks to me lol😌🤭.
        Again a wrong guess, you’re pretty not that good at guessing..!😂😂 What do you understand by a surgical resident, divyang?😑😂

        Haha, that’s kinda savage 😂😂
        Fucking true bullshit (but not applied everywhere)

        Haha, good..lol…!
        Okey, attending emergency calls lmao, night duties, continuously at the beck and call of the patients and that so suffocating PPE…god inside I’m dying…lmao😂😂😂..
        And you are asking me how a funday I had???😂😂😂

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      15. Exactly, you got the right nerve!!😛😛🙌🙌
        Tackling is hard??!! Then try dribbling!!😂😂😂 Sorry as a football fan, this type of words included in convo, don’t mind!!

        Lol, demand me h aap to!!😛😛
        Hahahahaha, you caught me!! Very bad in guessing, I guess!😂😂
        Surgical resident, well as name said aap v strike krte honge kahi pe, Like pulvama!!😂😂
        Joke apart, Surgical resident means as you told me you are doing internship right? To vesa ku6, where you doing your internship under some qualified surgeon, wrong??…😅😅

        Lol, Savage…😂😂😛😛
        It comes with a tag ai think, applicable but not acceptable!!

        Night duties,😮😮 Sounds like a you had terrible funday!!
        No, no hum h tab tak toh you will not die, neither inside nor outside…😛😛😂😂

        BTW what if I need emergency someday? 😂😂 Should I have to visit Delhi for that? Tab tak to jaan bhi chali jayegi, vachan bhi…😂😂

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      16. Dribbling, now you gotta tell me what that is..fuck google, tell me by yourself..!😂
        Ohh I never knew admits a CA is a football fan..! Never mind, I gotta learn them then..!😅

        Very bad..yess😂
        Umm…strikes yeass..! Lmao
        Well, yeass an intern in the college, and practicing too, yeass kinda you are right..!! Partially though, not an internship under a qualified surgeon, but, practicing under them.
        You get that maybe now.😅😁

        Yeass, fucking night duties, though not that frequent. Hahaha, aapki meherbaani 😌😌

        Hahahaha, well then, depends on wht kinda emergency..!😂😂😂
        Well aap takleef na kijiyega, hum aa jaenge😂😂🤦‍♀️
        Hm jaan aur vachan dono bachana jaante hain sir😂😂😂😇

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      17. You really don’t know dribbling? Nutmeg? Well these are some terms of football, 😂😂 Attackers in football often use that funda to get past the defenders, like moving the ball with two of their legs, confused the defense of opposition!! Nutmeg is really well trick used by players…haha never no to football!!✌✌

        Hahahahaha, I know I bad at guess…😂😂 well sounds similar to us.. We also do the same, but we interns under qualified CA!!! Amm I got it, something…😂😂😛😛

        Night duties, I really like to work in night and prefer that job in future as well…😅😅 Meherbaani nai kehte use,?

        Emergency is emergency BTW!!😂😂
        Ohh don’t be late then like Cops, 😛😛
        Well that’s good, will see!!😌😁

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      18. Ohh that’s a good word.. I’m gonna use that In my upcoming ones..!😅🤭🤭🤭
        Such a fan ik..! I can smell that now😂😂

        And I think you didnt got that already..!😂😂😂 Anyways leave that..!😂😂

        Haahhh, surley come join me then..!😂😂 you’ll get to know what are the night duties actually, at the beck and call of the patients.
        To kya kehte hain use??? Aap bataein??

        Haha, well yeass..! Emergencies..!
        Dont compare doctors to cops damn.😂😂😂
        (Though no offenses to any cops out there too..!!🤭)

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      19. Yeah Football is good game, did you fond of it?
        If no then , what’s your sports girl?😅😅
        Yeah sure, use them as much as you wish..😁😁
        How’s it smell then?

        ohh, really? Shit, my bad!!😂😂

        no no, had an experience to do night shift, Nirmala didi h na, kripa bani hui h unki to abhi to join krne ka koi space nai h, but in future will surely called you!!😂😂😂

        use kya kehte h, I also don’t know. So meherbaani hi rkho abhi to!!😋😋
        Emergencies, you are kinda busy one, i can smell that…
        Ohh no no, didn’t mean that, kaha baat kar di cops ki,

        Doctors are for saving life, Cops are like exactly opposed to them, 😂😂
        Stay safe, keep smiling Akshita😁😊

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      20. Naah never..!😂😂😂
        I never had a liking to football..!
        Always been a fan of watching cricket and tt and playing badminton and basketball..😁🙌🏻
        Smells good..hmmmmm 😂

        Hahah, it is now..!😂😂

        Ye nirmala didi bhi na..chaliye kabhi aur hi shi😂😂🙏
        Jii shukriya😂😂
        Hahah, and how is that smell now.. haann????😂😂

        Hhaahaaha…!
        You too divyang. Take care 💖

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      21. Are Then you have to watch it, football bdhiya khel h ekdum..😅😅😁😁
        Cricket? IPL khelte ho aap?😂😂 I mean dekhte ho??
        Achcha to hum PV Sindhu ki dur ki rishtedaar se baat kar rhe h, aesa??😂😂😂
        Good choices though🙌🙌

        Lol… No…😂😂😂
        Nirmala didi Zindabaad thi, Zindabad h aur Zindabad rhegi…😂😂
        Smells good..hmmmm 😂

        N say, kya haal chaal?

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      22. Ji zrroorrr…hum zroor try karenge..!😂🙌🏻
        Hahahah, shaunk toh hai dekho but vakt nhi milta dekhne ka😂😂😂
        Hahaha, veryyyy funnnyyyy 🤪

        Well, I must say, nirmala didi ko kitni badduaein milti hongi bhyee3😂😂 …bechari nirmala ji

        Sb badiya..! Bss Jee the hain..😂😂😂Aap bataein????🤪

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      23. Are sach Bol rhe h, ekdum badhiya game h Football…😅😅
        Shaukh h to kriye na voh, Vakt to kyo badnam kiye ja rhe h aap?!🙈😂😂 Shaukh bade kaam ki chiz h, you know…
        To kya kr rhi h vo, China walo pe surgical strike k pioneer vo hi the, PV Sindhu ji…😂😂😂 I hope, you get this one…

        Badduaein?! Are hamare Minister h, vo bhi Finance.. Badduaein to vo kg k rate me bechte honge…😂😂😂

        Are that’s good, Aur ghar pe? did you tell them that you are planned to visit them on Diwali or It’s a surprise??😅😅
        Ji din nikal rahe h filhal to, 😂😂 Don’t know what tomorrow brings, how and when it fuck, no idea!!😂😂

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      24. Ji zrrorrr…I’ll try watching that..!😂😂
        And yes my interest too😂😂..bss thoda vakt milne dein..!😂😂😂 Shaunk bade kaam ki cheezein hain par uske liye vakt bhi hona chahiye sir ..!😌 ( I definitely do whenever I fetch some 😁)
        Hahah, very funny divyang, haan le lo yahan bhi ab ache se, sb doctors surgical strikes nhi krte..okeyy???😂😂😂
        Ek to dilli ke doctors upar se ye surgical strikes…😂😂😂🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

        Aree reee Ree ree😂😂😂😂🤦‍♀️..kafi bura haal maalum hota hai hamein😂

        Well everyone’s doing well in home as well. And yes, I havent yet told them about this. Haha, you can say a surprise, I’m definitely not telling them this time😂😂, anyways, my leave has not yet been confirmed .!😂 .I hope I get my leave letter soon🤪🤪🤪
        Hahaha, very relatable condition though.🤪😂😂, still, amidst this mess, we are happy, in some or the other way, and I guess this is wht matters…right???

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      25. Ji zaroor. Dekhiye ga, hum puchenge aap se baad me kya sikhe aap?! 😂😂
        Waqt, ka kya hain?! Aaj mera h, kal aapka aur fir kisi aur ka…😂😂 ( lol, looks who advised on time, Jo khud lad raha h waqt se 👦👈) Are shanti se, Pura jeevan h abhi to…🙌🙌
        Are humne pehle bhi kaha tha Fakiro ka kya h, Jo dete h sab, vo hi share karte h aage…😂😂

        Doctors ki surgical strikes ka to koi Counter reply ho hi nai sakta BTW!!😂😂
        Dilli k doctors ki to baat hi alag h, sahi na? 😂😂

        Are Khud Chain ki nind sote h, dusro ki nind bigad k, to badduaei to lagegi na!!😂😂
        Kisi ki dua lage na lage, par yeh badduaei hoti h zindagi bhar picha nai chodti!!!😂😂

        Wow, great…🙌🙌😁😁
        Seriously, you are in mood to give surprise them? Well sounds good idea, 😁😁 Really Very happy for you..😁😌 Are live k liye leave confirmation maayne nai rakhti, Madamji…😅😅 Are humari wishes h, confirm ho jayegi fikar not..🙌🙌😁😁
        Bole to Nirmala didi se baat kre?! 🙈😂😂

        Yes, we are happy but still mazaa nai aa rha life me, if frankly bole to…😅😅 and at the same time kat rahe h din jese tese to chalta h…

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      26. Ji zroor.. hm dekhte hain phir batate hain aapko😂😂😂😂
        Vakt vakt ki baat h..hahahhaa
        ( yeah ik😂😂😂, I’m fighting, I dont want others to suffer, atleast I can help this much, when I’m able to …meee😂🤭)
        Haan haan, poora jeevan,..! Kya pata kl ho na ho😁🤭
        Jaiye jaiye, kuch bhi😂😂

        Haan haan…theeekkkkkk haaaiiiii😂😂
        Ufffff…..strikes, dilli, doctors😂😂🤦‍♀️

        Hhaha, I can get that.. hmhm.
        Badduaein toh aap samjhe thok ke bhav mein bik rhi hain inko😂😂

        Hahha, yeassss, kinda. My sister is fond of them.😂😂 gonna see their faces when I land up there. Aree shukriyaa, aaapne bola aur leave na mile, aisa ho skta h kya??😂😂
        I hope so I get too🤪
        Aree aree, naah naah, itni meherbaani aapki hm hazam nhi kar paenge…😂😂 rehne dijiye, aapne ye pooch liya vahi kaafi h😌🤭

        You caught that right.🥺🥺🥺
        But after all, at the end day …everything is like, chl rha h..so let it be..!😁

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      27. Yeah, dekhna, varna fail ho jaoge to gracing se paas nai krenge aapko bata de rehe h abhi se!!😂😂
        (Aree I am talking about me, that time, k me hi abhi ladd rha hoo waqt se, aur badi badi advice deta fir raha hoo..😜😜)
        Yaar, am still not getting your words, Kal ho na ho,
        I heard this twice from you, that too in a single day!!
        (Just believe kal hogi, aur hum bhi hoge vaha…😅😅)

        Theeek hain na? To thik hain!!!😂😂😂
        Too much in just single line, Strikes-delhi-doctors, lol!!!!🤣🤣🤣

        Yuup, ekdum sahi pakde hain,
        Badduaien to mano aese milti hogi jese free ki advice!!🤪🤪

        Are waah, badhiya hain fir to…😅😅
        At last aapki sister jo rahi, so similarities to milni hi thi, right?!
        Surprises are always best yr, but don’t know how to react in that, did you know?
        Milegi milegi, sabko milegi…😂😂 Leave…

        Are doctor h, digestion ki koi medicine khud hi prefer kar dena apne aap ko!!🤣
        Vese hum bolte fir bhi aapko lagta h, Nirmala didi hamari sunti?
        Vo khud ki nai sunti to hamari kya sunegi!!!😂😂😂

        Yes I caught that because I too trap in that, so better understand that…
        Yeah, chal rha h, kat rha h…😁😁

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      28. Areee areee😂😂😂😂, ji zarorr, iski naubat nhi aane denge hm😂
        (Aree nhi nhi, well, zyada achi advice to unhi se aati h jo actually currently totally uss condition me ho, I swear unse zyada koi aur nhi jaan pata wht it really is like😂, sooo ladiye and hme vkt vkt pr seekh bhi dete rahein🤭😁)
        Aree toh scch hi to bole hain hum, ab kise pata kl ho na ho😂😂, yahan to yahi nhi pata rehta agle second kya hone wala hai, toh kl ki toh kya hi baat ki jaye😂😂 ( hahaha, isi ko believe krte hue to chl rhe hain sir😂)

        Haanji theeeeeekkkkkkk haiiii🤨
        Hahahah, pata nhi kb peecha chootega isse😂😂🤦‍♀️

        Hahah, exactly. But free ki advice is so much better than that..nhi??? After all does wonders sometimes for some😂😂 (do not compare this to the free advice of the 3 idiots case😂😂😂)

        Hahah, well maybe not😂😂. We are not that much similar. 😂
        Surprise, yes, ye toh mujhe bhi seekhna h bhyee, how to deal with them??? How to react??? Lmao😂😂😂😂
        Mtlb dena aasan h, but lena, bc react hi krna nhi aata, and the other person thinks, are we emotionless, expressionless, isko acha nhi laga hamara surprise or wht????😂😂😂

        Hahaha.
        Hmhm, tbhi bola h rehne do😂😂😂😂, mtlb kya mtlb h faltu unse behes krne ka?😂

        Hmmm….I hope so even amidst this, we can treat ourselves better. Atleast get that courage to fight this.😁❤

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      29. Yeah, I’ll see, ki vo naubat na hi aaye to achcha!!😂😂
        Le rhe hain aap humari?!!🧐🧐 Koi na le lo, khush raho aap bhi…😂😂
        Sikh to hum dete raahenge, aap kya lete ho dete ho usme se, wo imp h then…😅😅

        Arre, hell yeah, yaha hum khud ko bharosa dila rahe h ki kal hamari hogi, roz roz ki marva k thak chuke h ab, then you come like kal ho na ho,😂😂 matlab humara marvana sab waste jayega? (Just kidding…😂😂)
        Hume khud bhi nahi pata rehta kab Sir aayenge aur in which way they fucked us?!
        We are like ready raho, (3 idiots ka starting scene h na bilkul vesi condition hoti h kbhi kbhi Jahan panah tussi great ho, tohfu kabool karo, lol…😂😂😂😂)

        Aap chahe to sab ku6 ho sakta h, but seems like you are too like to live in that..😅😅
        Yeah, free ki advice best hoti h isse to, matlab costless h to loss to hoga nahi yeh pakka h…😅😅( Na na humne narrate upar kar diya 3 idiots wala scene… 😂😂😂)

        Oh how? why not similar? Siblings ho yr, similarities to milni hi chahiye!!😂😂
        Lol, to to fir ye aesa ho gya, andhe se pu6a rasta dikhao bhai!!😂😂😂
        Yeah said true… React hi nhi hota usi time, aur sab time pe uchal uchal k nikalta h sab ku6…😂😂😂
        Yeh len den ki game hamare bass ki baat hain hi nahi,
        Surprise vo hume dete hain, but surprise vo ho jate h, ki banda surprise hua ya nai, lol😂😂😂

        Haaan, bas yeh to sirf pu6 rahe the, pata tha na aapka answer is liye 😂😂😂
        Yuup, some fuelled always there in ours which keeps us blowing, going..
        Hope to bas yahi h, kal ho jaye jaldi se…
        Stay safe..😁😁

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      30. Ji ji😂😂😂
        Aree nhi hm kahan, hm maasum log, na na, hm nhi kr skte aise bhyee😂😂
        Hahah, ji ji😂🙏

        Aree toh shi bhi toh hai ab dekhiye😂, kise pata kl ho na ho😐, aaj hain kal nhi..!😶
        Hahaha, aise hm hone denge aapko lagta hai???😂😂😂
        Aree aree, ye to aap ek aadmi bata dein jisko ye pata hoga ( on the first note, if we really knew that, dont you think we would have obviously thought of something😉😂😂)
        Bss bsss..vo movie to yaad hi na dilaein😂😂😂, gazab ki seekh deti hai

        Aree ji kyun nhi😂😂, ho toh skta hai dekho, umm well keh skte ho..I dont have words on this…lmao😂😂
        Hai naa, free ki advice, haan costless toh hai hi, but aisa bhi nhi bol skte ki LOSS nhi hone wala, mtlb vo to depend krta h advice kaisi h😂, ab aisi ki dubaegi ya phir seedha upar leke jaegi, dekho kuch bhi ho skta h, yahan bhi sb gol hi hai😂😂😂

        Itni bhi nhi milti bhyee😂😂😂, koi twins vagerah thodi na tehre hm😂😂😂
        Hahahahahha…
        Well explained though😂😂
        Aree aree, bilkul shi explain kr diye aap toh😂, unka surprise unko Mubarak vali baat ho jati h😂

        Ohooo..chlo chlo😂😂
        Yeasss…! Always there, which keeps us going, no matter what.
        Ji hoga hoga, aap chinta na karein.

        You too stay safe😁

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      31. Ji ji bilkul…😂😂😂
        Arre bhai Masoom, aur vo bhi aap? By which angle/scenario? 😂😂
        Akshitaji are u dreaming?!!😅😅😅

        Sahi to hain, par kal to hogi, whether we are or not, here right?😅😅
        Everything and everyone has substitutions, (need of an eye to see that 😋😂)
        Lagta to bilkul bhi nai hain, sach bataye to…😂😂😂
        Btw I am not get that words (aadmi bata dein?!!,) can u explain me that in Aasan bhasa?😅😅
        Aree bhai, vo movie nai hain, reality hain life ki…😅😅 Thik hain nai yaad dilate bas, (all is well…😋😋)

        Yeah, that’s the point…😅😅 Aap bhi chahte ho to fir hum to kya hi kar skte h….
        Yeah, free ki advice dhoondhne jao to aapko pura ek bagpack leke jana pade use bharne k liye, shayad vo bhi chota pade…😂😂 I mean loss in that way, k when we applied that free ki advice, we haven’t pay for that, so loss ka chance nai hamara, haa agar vaha pe loss ho sakta hain if we much rely on that…🤣🤣🤣
        Matlab aap bhi maante ho duniya gol hain? Hume to bas yahi pata hain, duniya na…😂😂

        To milao na, at last u r siblings, right?🙈😜🤪🤪
        Aesa thodi na hota hain twins me hi similarities dikhti h?!!? 🧐🧐
        Lol, this happens, but we can’t do anything though, so len den ka game hamari soch se pare h…😅😅
        Lol, unka surprise unko mubarak, bhai surprise dene aaya tha, khud surprise ban k reh gya…🙈😂😂

        Kaha jana h?? Chalo hum to ready hain..😆😆
        Yuup we are living at last, but not loving the way we are living…😅😅

        Hogi, wo bhi hogi bahot jaldi hi, aap ki kripa rahi to…🤪🤪

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      32. Hahahaha, aur nhi to kyaaaa
        Aree bhyeeee dreaming, chod diya bhyee ab toh😂😂😂

        Hahaha, right. Time and tide waits for none.😁
        Aree scch mein, hm aisa kadapi nhi hone denge😂😂
        Aree, I meant tell me one person who knows wht the fuck is going on in their lives (aasan bhasha mein😂😂)
        Scch mein..scchai hai bhyee scchai😂😂

        Ikr…ye to bulk me milti h..aur kuch mile na mile😂😂
        Yeah exactly, that is so much wht I was saying 😂😂, ab totally reliable bnn gye uspe, phir to ghaata hai bhyee🤪😂
        Hahahah, in the other way, lmao😂😂😂

        Hahahaha, Haaan, agreed, okay😂😂🙏, mtlb theek hai, ab dekho mujhe to koi Lagi nhi, saamne wale ko lge vo alag baat h😂😂,
        Ik ik, I guess the only difference here is the genetic makeup😂😂😂, hereditary appearances can match, but Genes, they play here. Lol
        Hahaha, iss cheez se toh jitna door raha jaaye, utna shi h😂😂
        Aree aree, bechare log, khud ke paer pr kulhadi maarte hain bhyee jo bhi hamein surprise dene aate honge..nhi??😂😂

        Hahaha, I meant niklo niklo🤨😂😂 ( vaise chala bhi jaa skta hai kahin, hamien koi aapatti nhi hai..dekhiye😂😂)
        Ye gmm to hamesha rehne wala hai divyang ji, kaun khush hai apne aap se, apne haalaton se??😂😂

        Aree..kya baat kr di aapne😂😂😂, hamari kripa toh hamesha bani rhegi sir😂😂, aap kripa ko shi disha mein use karna seekhein😂😂😂🤭

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      33. Hahahahaha aur to ku6 bai…😂😂😂
        Aree dreaming 6od diya, kya baat kar rhe hoo, sachchi??😂😂
        Yes, absolutely.. They waits for none…😁😁😁
        Arreee sach me?? Achcha dekhte hain fir to…😁😁
        Ohh lol, this question of your in Aasan bhasa, feels like most difficult language to understand in whole universe..😂😂😂 Yeah, mirror, right??!😂😂
        Yes, padosh vali aunt se leke veg vendor sab bhare pade hain advice dene k liye…😂😂😂
        Ghaata nai hain pura kata jayega aapka (Aasan bhasa me😂😂) lol….😂😂😂
        Hahahahaha, duniya gol hain us baat pe aap agree ho mtlb,?🙈😂😂
        Arre hum jyada jante nai na unko varna hum hi bata dete aapki similarities…😂😂😂
        Lol, genetic makeup, by birth…😂😂😂 exactly it’s hard to recognized them by face but genes play well there…😂😂😂
        Na, na… Kyo bhai kya bigada iss chiz ne aapka Jo door rehna prefer kr rhe ho?!😅😅
        Hahahahaha, you get it…
        Khud k pair me kulhadi marna, lol… Exactly exactly…😂😂😂 They are like kya se kya ho gye dekhte dekhte, aaye the khud k paer, langda ban k ja rhe h…😂😂😂
        Arre Abhi k abhi nikalte hain dekhiye…😂😂 (vese aapatti to Hume bhi nai hain BTW…😂😂)
        Gamm ki kaha baat kar di, log gamm me apni begum ko bhul jate h….😂😂😂 to fir khushi kya chiz hain….😂😂😂
        Ji yahi baat kar di humne..😂😂😂, ji dhanyavad aapka bahot bahot..😂😂😂
        Vahi to nai ho rha, kripa sahi direction me jati hi nai hain…😂😂😂
        Aap suggest kre ku6….😂😂

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      34. Aree mtlb, on useless things 😂😂, just keeping healthy boundaries..!😁
        Yepp..thank god you understood 😂😂
        Is that?😂😂 was that, that much a difficult question to ask divyang?😂😂, but ab to pooch liya hmne, toh aapko jawaab to dena padega naa🤭🤭

        Hahahaha, ikr…unka to batao mt😂😂😂
        Exactly, so listen to every, but kro mann ki🤣🤣
        Ji ji, ab kya aapki tarah anghootha chapvaein?😂😂 ( well, aapke vichaar..????)

        Aree aree…😂😂
        Hahah, well yeass, genes na bahut badiya cheez hai😂😂😂, ache se khel jati hai, jahan ‘coincidences meet more than incidences ‘..lol

        Len den..bhyee…kya milega ye sb krke..?😂😂 na krna h na karvana hai😀😂😂, isliye door hi shi hain hm toh bhyeee😂😂😂

        Hahahah, well co related here😂😂😂😂
        Aree aree, to chaliye, hm to taeyaar hain, nirmala didi aap pr thodi kripa karengi iss baar aapko lagta h???😂😂
        Hahhaha, ji ji shi pakde hain 😂😂

        Jaiegi jaegi, aap koshish karte rahein. 😁😌

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      35. Achcha paji samaj gye…😁😁 healthy boundaries, wealthy us…
        Arre hume to samajna hi tha, aapne jo samja diya to…😅😅
        Then I’ll answere your question,
        we all knew what the fuck is going on in our life, but jab baat hamare ctrl me nai rehti, we start making it more worse, instead of to let it flow, right?😅😅 ( i think this much aasan bhasa answer you will get..😅😅)

        Exactly, suno sab ki, karo apne mann ki…😂😂😂
        Ji chapva sakte hoo.. zaroori nahi sirf illiterate insan hi angootha lagva skta hain, lol…😂😂😂 (well mere vichar?? kharab hain na bhot, I know….😅😅)
        Lol, you stole words from my mouth…🤣🤣🤣
        coincidences and incidences,lol…. kya bataye ab to uske bare me…🤣🤣🤣

        Ku6 bhi nai, is liye to hum in sab se pare hain, na dete hain na hi lete hain….lol..😂😂 (especially surprises….😂😂😂😂😂)

        Hahaahhaha…😜😜😜😜
        Bas aap nikaiye hum milte hain aapko raste me…😅😅
        Are karegi kya, 2 months extend kar diye again in GST…🤣🤣🤣 aap kripa ki baat kar rhe ho, yaha to unhone kripa ki baarish kr di…..🤣🤣🤣
        Sahi pakde hain, lol….🤣🤣
        Haan ab to hume bhi lag rha hain, kripa mil to gai hain bas sahi raaste bhejna baki hain sirf…😅😅

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      36. Ji ji…everyone should😂😂
        Awwww….seriously 😌🤭
        Welll..yeass….! Actually this is a very acceptable answer😌😂..well jokes apart, its true when we see things are not working the way we want them to, we start making conditions worse for us.

        Aree areee lagvaiye aap to..and illiterate se yaad aaya…aaj kl to log illiterate zyada na padhne se nhi, blki zyada padhe likhe hone se hote hain..nhi???😂😂 (well aapke vichaar hamein hamesha kuch n kuch acha sikha hi dete hain, isliye aise to mt kahiye😌)
        Hahhaha, scch mein??😂😂😂😂

        Dete nhi ho, vo to theek hai, but lete kaise nhi ho, mtlb who knows we are getting surprised by someone 😂😂😂..batao batao..raaz batao😌🌚

        Aree zrrrooorrr. 😌
        Seriously, 2 months extension..are they mad or wht?? Do they ever care about the people working?? I feel like kicking them off rn
        To wait kis cheez ka kar rhe hain aap divyang ji, use shi disha mein bss bhej dein ab to bhagwaan ka naam leke😂😂😂😂

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      37. Ji ji… Bilkul…😂😂😂
        Aww, yeass seriously..😁😁😁😂😂
        Yes, how can my answer isn’t acceptable one, No no you tell me… yes, it’s acceptable..🤣🤣 yeah, we start making it worse for us, for the people we surrounded by…

        Arree aree, abhi k abhi lagva dete par kya kare, humare pass hain nahi na…😂😂
        Arree vaah ku6 naya sunne ko mila aaj, par true bhi hain, 🤩🤩
        Illiteracy found more in literate one now a days. padhe likhe ganvar, right?🤭🤣
        Akshita, means this is epic one..😂😂
        (well, humare vichar, in front of you seems like chinti ki comparison hathi k sath..😅 bahot hi vahiyat vichar grahan krte h hum I know..😂😂😂)
        Arre sach me…😂😂😂

        amm, surprise na hoke…🤣🤣 vo bataya tha na koi surprise dene vala ho, bechara khud surprise ban k reh jata hain.. (mere surprise similar to surprise not at all..😂😂 raaz to aap bataiye hume, kya hain iss amas k chand ka raaz🤣🤣 )

        Arre pakka..😋😋
        Yeah, arree sukoon mila hume bahot hi, 2 months extend kar k..😅😅
        they aren’t mad, they are government..🤣🤣
        And you know better than me that what’s government, right?😅😅
        wait is liye kar rhe hain, kyo ki disha kho gai hain kahi, dhoondh rhe hain,
        jese hi milti hain, bhejte hain use..😂😂😂 bhagwaan ka naam leke..😂😂😂

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      38. Hahahahah, very funnnyyyy divyang.😂😂

        Exactly, padhe likhe ganwar😂😂, an kya kiya jaa skta h..jo jaisa h vaise hi rehne wala h😂
        Ab ye to aapki soch hai bhyee😂, hamein to kaafi kuch acha pata chlta hai aapse😂

        Areee, hm to raaz hi nhi rkhte sir, to ab bhi kya hi bataenge aapko hm to😂😂😂

        Scch mein..really?????? Sukoon milaaa aapkoooo????????🤔😂
        Hahah, ji ji😂😂😂, fuckin governments
        Awwww, toh dhoondhiye na uss disha ko😂
        Are are, zroor zroor, jai mata dii😂🤚🏻

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    1. Thank you so much for your words..!😁😁
      Really means a lot..!
      I’m so glad you liked it🙂💕💕

      Btw, I was about to ask your name🤪😅😅
      Can you please do the pleasure 😅🤭🤭

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      2. Okey, preeths 🙂👍🏻

        Thanks for letting me know that..! I wanted to ask that for long😅🤭🤭🤭
        And, yes, my heartiest thanks to you for supporting me too..!😁💞

        I hope you are doing good. 😅

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      4. Same goes for you too..mate😊🙌🏻🙌🏻

        All this, would never have been possible by all of your firm support from the very beginning till here..!😁❤
        Thank you 🌹

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    1. Exactly, this is the least that can actually happen lol😅😅
      But, unless we try, how can we even figure that out..!😁
      So, just say..!🥳

      Thank you so much for this appreciation…!
      It means a lot to me..!🙂💙

      Hope you are doing good.

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  10. A truly inspiring post. The hardest thing to do is ask, and when you do, quite often the answer will surprise you. Most people are generous. As a dear friend has always said to me: the answer will always be no, unless you ask. Even if the answer is no, what did you learn for next time😊

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    1. Yeass, thank you so much for these inspiring words here..! Appreciate them a lot🤗

      And yes, unless we ask, how can we judge the answer of the other person..!😅
      We can choose to be a part of crowd, or grow from that..! Choice is always ours.!😁
      Your words made my day, I’m so glad you could connect with this so well..!
      A big thanks to you..!😊

      Sending all courage your way 💞
      Have a great day ahead, and remember, never to give up❤

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    1. Thank you so much Deepak for giving it a read 🙂
      I so humbly appreciate your so kind words here..🤗🤗
      Yess, this is a very simple thing, which is ignored by so many out there.
      Thank you so much for the appreciation 🙂❤

      Hope you are doing good 😊

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      2. A big thanks again, deepak..!😁

        Your constant supports mean a lot to me, such a great inspiration your words are😊🤗
        Hope you have a great day ahead 💕

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  15. “Just do it…” Had a similar experience recently, took my shot, went all out. And got shot down. But I gained an understanding of the situation that I never had before. Now, I’m focused on something more interesting instead of crying about it. The shots that we miss are valuable too. 🥇🏵🏆🥰💕

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    1. Exactly…!😁🙌🏻

      I’m so glad you rose and shine again..! After all, this is what is needed to the core.
      That understanding is a must, lily, I’m so happy to see you grow more and more..!💕💕

      Missing something is sometimes definitely worth it😁🙌🏻
      Sending all courage your way 💕💕

      Have a great day ahead lily❤❤

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  16. Beautifully illustrated with lovely thoughts. Sometimes we make perceptions about the other person without having a little convesation and sometimes we hesitate to ask something because of unwanted dejection of our questions or not getting favourable replies but in the end its worth to ask instead of creeping inside in your heart and mind.
    Keep writing!🙌🙌😇

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    1. Exactly, I’m glad you could connect with this so well..!😁🙌🏻
      Your words are so upto the mark..! Thank you so much for your humble words. Exactly, everything is worth of just a ask..! This is the least we can do for ourselves, atleast.
      Making up a mind for which we dont know what the answer could be is just mere stupidity..!

      Rise and shine..!💕💕
      Have a great day ahead 🌹

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    1. Thank you so much for your appreciation..!
      It means a lot..!🥰

      Yes, after all this is the thing we lack somehow, and the least we can do for ourselves, WORK ON YOU FOR YOU..!🙂🙌🏻

      have a great day ahead 🥰💝

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    1. Yess, I do agree with you, rarely people(even me) do that. But, rarely do they even realise how many opportunities they are leaving behind by just assuming things the way they are, without even making a call to ASK..!

      thank you so much for your kind words. I do appreciate them a lot..!💝
      Have a great day ahead 💐

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  30. So true, if we don’t muster enough courage to ask, the answer will always be know. If we try and ask, there is a 50% chance of getting a positive answer. But in most cases we go for a 100% chance of rejection without even trying as this option doesn’t involve letting out our vulnerable side in front of others. We wish to keep a positive memory in our mind and wouldn’t want to harm it by facing a rejection in the reality. The fear of failure results in so many lost opportunities and unfulfilled dreams. I’ll try my best to ask before giving up on any situation in life going ahead.

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    1. Exactly, how can we predict an answer as a NO, without even asking. Nothing is a 100% no for sure, anyways assuming is so bad, atlesst we can give ourselves one chance, kne chance to ask. That is not so hard?
      Exactly, you are so right here. I hope everyone develops such a mindset🙂, but yes, see, people want to live their expectations, and they assume they’ll get hurt. After all, wht if you pass that?? No one thinks of the positive side, only the negative aspects. ( everything has a good and the bad side, the choices are what we want to choose for ourselves, anyways making a mindset of a NO before asking is very bad then not even trying. After all, we should try. We can face any situation out there. Only matter to believe in us..🙂❤

      I’m sending all courage your way, always be on the path of trying and never giving up on any situation ever, without giving atleast a try. ( dont ever let the fear of failure conquer the after successes of yours, for which you are so much capable of😉😁)

      Take care. Hugs❤

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  31. Great writing 🙌
    This was one post where the message behind it can be predicted as you progress reading, but the intensity with which the perseverance matters is what was unique about it. It’s like many of us already know that not asking is gonna leave us with zero chances of that thing happening, but the amount massive positive impact that asking instead would have over not asking is not something everyone thinks or talks about. Which makes this post unique. Amazing! 😁

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    1. Thank you so much Harshal. I appreciate your so kind words with gratitude.🙂

      You are so right,, asking once is so much better than keeping to yourself and assuming something as the answer.. isnt that?😁
      Your comment was very inspiring.
      Sending all strength your way. 🧡

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